The One You Feed - Learn Good Habits to Increase Mindfulness and Happiness and Decrease Anxiety and Depression (general)

Manoush Zomorodi- The One You Feed

 

 subscribe in itunes

This week we talk to Manoush Zomorodi about remaining human in a digital age

This interview was recorded live in the WNYC studios in New York city, home of other popular podcasts like RadioLab, The New Yorker Radio Hour and Freakonomics.

Manoush Zomorodi is the host and managing editor of Note to Self, “the tech show about being human,” from WNYC Studios.

Every week on her podcast, Manoush searches for answers to life’s digital quandaries, through experiments and conversations with listeners and experts. Topics include information overload, digital clutter, sexting “scandals," and the eavesdropping capabilities of our gadgets.

Manoush’s goal, as the New York Times wrote, is to “embrace the ridiculousness” of modern life, even when that means downloading dozens of apps to fight the feeling of digital overload.  She often speaks on creativity in the digital age, kids and technology, and non-fiction storytelling.

Manoush has won numerous awards including 4 from the New York Press Club. In 2014, the Alliance for Women in Media named her Outstanding Host. Prior to New York Public Radio, Manoush reported and produced around the world for BBC News and Thomson Reuters. In 2012, she published Camera Ready, a guide to multimedia journalism.

The Note to Self podcast is starting a new challenge called Infomagical to help cope with information overload.. You will hear more about during the episode. If you want to sign up to participate at go to  wnyc.org/infomagical. Challenge week starts February 1 and runs through February 5.

 Our Sponsor this Week is MeetMindful

Visit MeetMindful and get a free trial

 

In This Interview, Manoush and I Discuss:

  • The One You Feed parable
  • How the good and bad wolf help each other to find the middle ground
  • Which "technology" wolf are you feeding?
  • Keeping our humanity in a digital age
  • Trying to understand the effects our technologies have on us
  • Having to make too many small decisions all day long
  • Information overload
  • How the average American takes in over 12 hours of information per day
  • The Note to Self Infomagical challenge
  • The consumption to creation ratio
  • Taking in too much information but not remembering or applying any of it
  • How a theme is important for memory and learning
  • The myth of multi-tasking
  • How not being perfect is the point of being human
  • The new digital literacy
  • Information filter failure
  • Asking "What's the Point" when consuming digital content
  • Eric's Three Questions:
    • What am I doing?
    • Why am I doing?
    • Is it what I should be doing?
  • Pulsing- working in small bursts
  • Getting everything out of your mind and written down somewhere and then prioritize it

See more show notes on our website 

subscribe in itunes

Direct download: Manoush_Zomorodi_Final.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 5:06pm EDT

Belinda Gore The One You Feed

 

 subscribe in itunes

This week we talk to Belinda Gore about The Enneagram

This episode was recorded outdoors, live before an audience

Belinda Gore is a psychologist, coach and experienced seminar leader who is skilled in supporting high-level learning and personal development.  She holds a Ph.D. in Counselor Education and Counseling Psychology, from The Ohio State University. Using the Enneagram system along with thirty years’ experience in facilitating change, she helps leaders identify their natural talents and deliver results by engaging the best in themselves and their organizations.

She founded The Enneagram Institute of Central Ohio, is the former president of The Cuyamungue Institute, a non-profit organization with international membership, and is a founder and former managing partner of Wilbridge Consultation Center, a multidisciplinary group using a holistic approach in working with individuals and groups.

 Our Sponsor this Week is Fracture

Visit Fracture and use the promo code “wolf” to get 10% off!!

 

Fracture- The One You Feed

In This Interview, Belinda and I Discuss:

  • The One You Feed parable
  • Understanding our filters and patterns
  • The Enneagram
  • Choosing what to focus on
  • The great Lou Dewein
  • How we need nature in our life- echo philosophy
  • What the Enneagram is
  • The 9 Enneagram Personality Types

 

Direct download: Belinda_Gore_Final.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 4:20pm EDT

Toni Bernhard The One You Feed

 subscribe in itunes

This week we talk to Toni Bernhard about not getting what we want

Toni Bernhard was a law professor at the University of California—Davis when she became very ill. Since then she had dealt with, and helped teach the world about how to deal with chronic conditions.

She is the author of How to Be Sick: A Buddhist-Inspired Guide for the Chronically Ill and their Caregivers. Her second book is titled How to Wake Up: A Buddhist-Inspired Guide to Navigating Joy and Sorrow. Her latest book is How to Live Well with Chronic Pain and Illness.

 

 Our Sponsor this Week is Fracture

Visit Fracture and use the promo code “wolf” to get 10% off!!

Fracture- The One You Feed

In This Interview, Toni and I Discuss

  • The One You Feed parable
  • How we are forming our personality as we go
  • The malleability of the mind
  • Our inability to be nice ourselves
  • How it feels good to be nice, kind and compassionate
  • Her journey through illness
  • Learning to handle not getting our way
  • How hard dealing with chronic illness is
  • How most of our suffering comes from our reaction to events, not the events themselves.
  • Building a life within our limitations
  • Dealing with things that are out of our control
  • How pain and sorrow are inevitable but suffering is optional

For more show notes please visit our website

 

subscribe in itunes

Direct download: ToniBerhardFinal.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 10:40pm EDT

 

john lee dumas the one you feed

 

 subscribe in itunes

This week we talk to John Lee Dumas

John Lee Dumas is the Founder and Host of EntrepreneurOnFire, awarded 'Best of iTunes 2013'. John interviews today's most inspiring and successful Entrepreneurs 7-days a week and has been featured in Forbes, Fast Company, Success, INC, & TIME Magazine.

John also founded the #1 Podcasting community in the world; Podcasters' Paradise; a community where over 1500 Podcasters learn how to create, grow, and monetize their podcast in a supportive environment.
 
He just completed the book The Freedom Journal. It is designed to help you create and complete a major goal in 100 days.

 Our Sponsor this Week is Casper Matresses

Visit casper.com/feed and use the promo code “feed” to get $50 off!!

the one you feed- casper matteress

 

In This Interview, John and I Discuss Accomplishing Your Goals

  • The One You Feed parable
  • Controlling our outlook  on life
  • Being grateful for today
  • The three things he does when he feels down
  • The value of exercise and fresh air
  • Surrounding ourselves with positive people
  • The legacy of Scott Dinsmore
  • John's time in the army

For more show notes visit our website

 

subscribe in itunes

Direct download: John_Lee_DumasFinal.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 5:00pm EDT

 

Megan Feldman Bettencourt
 subscribe in itunes

This week we talk to Megan Feldman Bettencourt about forgiveness

Megan Feldman Bettencourt is an award-winning writer and journalist. She has reported from many countries, and her journalism has appeared in publications including The San Francisco Chronicle, Psychology Today, Salon, The Daily Beast, GlamourNewsday and many others. Megan is the author of the internationally-acclaimed book, TRIUMPH OF THE HEART: FORGIVENESS IN AN UNFORGIVING WORLD, which explores forgiveness through science, stories and memoir. She holds a master's degree from the Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism.

In This Interview, Megan and I Discuss...

  • The One You Feed parable
  • Drinking poison and expecting your enemy to die
  • The story that got her interested in researching forgiveness
  • Her definition of forgiveness- giving up resentment
  • How forgiveness is not about enabling someone to avoid accountability
  • How Forgiveness and justice are not mutually exclusive
  • Forgiving because it benefits us
  • The toxic effects of resentment on our body
  • The process of learning to forgive
  • Grieving and feeling the emotions are part of the forgiveness practice
  • Engaging the part of the brain that is more able to become forgiving

 

For more show notes visit our website 

subscribe in itunes

Direct download: Megan_Feldman_Bettencourt_Final.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 8:08am EDT

 

Interested in behavior change? Please help us out by taking our short 3 question survey and receive a free guide: The 5 Biggest Behavior Change Mistakes

kristin neff- the one you feed

 

 subscribe in itunes

This week we talk to Kristin Neff about self compassion

Kristin Neff is a self-compassion researcher, author, and Associate Professor at the University of Texas at Austin. She got her Ph.D. at the University of California at Berkeley in 1997 in the field of moral development.

While doing her post-doctoral work she decided to conduct research on self-compassion – a central construct in Buddhist psychology and one that had not yet been examined empirically.

In addition to her pioneering research into self-compassion, she has developed an 8-week program to teach self-compassion skills. The program, co-created with her colleague Chris Germer, affiliated with Harvard Medical School, is called Mindful Self-Compassion. Her book, Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself was recently released in paperback.

She and her family were recently featured in the documentary and book called The Horse Boy.

In This Interview, Kristin and I Discuss...

  • The One You Feed parable
  • The difference between self-esteem and self-compassion
  • What self compassion is
  • The research on self-compassion and its benefits
  • How self-compassion increases motivation
  • The more self-compassionate you are, the less afraid of failure you are
  • How self-compassion reduces performance anxiety
  • The three pillars of self-compassion
  • Learning to soothe and comfort ourselves
  • Remembering that all people struggle and suffer
  • The damaging psychological effects of isolation
  • Learning to turn towards our own pain in order to work with it
  • How to practice self-compassion
  • Learning to talk to ourselves like we would a friend

For more show notes visit our website

Interested in behavior change? Please help us out by taking our short 3 question survey and receive a free guide: The 5 Biggest Behavior Change Mistakes

subscribe in itunes

Direct download: Kristin_Neff_Final.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 4:27pm EDT

Please help us out by taking our short 3 question survey and receive a free guide: The 5 Biggest Behavior Change Mistakes

Monk Yunrou- The One You Feed

 

 subscribe in itunes

This week we talk to Monk Yunrou about modern Taoism

Taoist Monk Yunrou in as author, activist, and tai chi master, Yunrou (formerly known as Arthur Rosenfeld) has a lifelong relationship with Taoism. A 35-year master of Taoist arts, he was born in America and ordained a monk, by official leave, at the Pure Yang Temple in Guangzhou, China. Combining his overarching spiritual focus with a Yale literary education, the pursuit of natural history at the University of California and Cornell, he is an authority on the cultural, social, and spiritual dimensions of Eastern thinking for the Western world.

Yunrou contributes to such publications as VogueVanity Fair, and Parade, and has been profiled and cited in Newsweek, and other national magazinesHis blog on The Huffington Post is frequently cited by other websites, including The Wall Street JournalFox Business News, and Reuters. He has appeared on national TV networks including Fox News, and interviewed on various podcasts and radio shows. From 2010 – 2013, Yunrou hosted the hit (56MM households tuned in) national public television show Longevity Tai Chi with Arthur Rosenfeld.

His latest book is called Yin: A Love Story

In This Interview, Yunrou and I Discuss...

  • The One You Feed parable
  • The Tao Te Ching- Eric's favorite translation
  • How the Tao that can be spoken is not the real Tao
  • Seeing things in terms of binary opposites working harmoniously together.
  • What Taoism is
  • The differences between Taoist meditation and Buddhist meditation
  • Tai Chi and the deep integration to Taoism
  • The culture which the Tao Te Ching was written
  • Some of Eric's favorite sections from the Tao Te Ching
  • How there is no connection between money and happiness
  • The lack of connection we have to the modern world
  • History of Lao Tzu
  • The concept of stewardship

For more show notes visit our website

 

Please help us out by taking our short 3 question survey and receive a free guide: The 5 Biggest Behavior Change Mistakes

subscribe in itunes

Direct download: YunrouFinal.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 10:56pm EDT

Please help us out by taking our short 3 question survey and receive a free guide: The 5 Biggest Behavior Change Mistakes

guy winch the one you feed

 

 subscribe in itunes

This week we talk to Guy Winch about emotional first aid

Guy Winch, Ph.D., is a licensed psychologist, keynote and TED speaker, and author whose books have been translated into twenty languages. His most recent book is Emotional First Aid: Healing Rejection, Guilt, Failure, and Other Everyday Hurts .

The Squeaky Wheel: Complaining the Right Way to Get Results, Improve Your Relationships and Enhance Self-Esteem  was published in January 2011. His TED Talk, Why We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid, has been viewed over 2.5 million times and is rated among the top 5 most inspiring talks on TED.com.

Dr. Winch received his doctorate in clinical psychology from New York University in 1991 and completed a postdoctoral fellowship in family and couples therapy at NYU Medical Center. He has been working with individuals, couples and families in his private practice in Manhattan, since 1992. He is a member of the American Psychological Association.

Dr. Winch also writes the popular Squeaky Wheel Blog on Psychology Today.com, and blogs for Huffington Post.

In This Interview, Guy Winch and I Discuss...

  • The One You Feed parable
  • Emotional First Aid: What it is & how to apply it in your life
  • How to triage small emotional wounds
  • Building emotional resiliency
  • That treating emotional wounds when they are small can prevent them from escalating into larger ones later
  • How to treat the emotional wound of rejection
  • How to improve low self esteem
  • The dangers of rumination: stewing vs. doing
  • What to do when caught in a place of rumination
  • The difference between rumination and trying to figure something out
  • Building self compassion
  • The detective mindset vs. a harmful, self critical mindset
  • The research Guy Winch is currently working on that's got him really excited

 

Please help us out by taking our short 3 question survey and receive a free guide: The 5 Biggest Behavior Change Mistakes

subscribe in itunes

Direct download: GuyWinchFinal2.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 9:04pm EDT

Please help us out by taking our short 3 question survey and receive a free guide: The 5 Biggest Behavior Change Mistakes

loch kelly- the one you feed

 subscribe in itunes

This week we talk to Loch Kelly about awake awareness

Loch Kelly, MDiv, LCSW, is a teacher, consultant, and leader in the field of meditation and psychotherapy who was asked to teach by Mingyur Rinpoche and Adyashanti. The founder of the Open-Hearted Awareness Institute, he is an emerging voice in modernizing meditation, social engagement, and collaborating with neuroscientists to study how awareness training can enhance compassion and well-being.

Our Sponsor this Week is Wisdom Publications. Click here to explore their offerings

 

In This Interview Loch Kelly and I Discuss...wisdom-publications

  • The 4 types of parable interpretations
  • His new book
  • The idea of awareness
  • How to feel, know, be & live from our awareness
  • The "pointing out instructions" can enable us to access our true nature at any time
  • Glimpse practices that we can use to discover & experience our true nature
  • The difference between a glimpse practice & a meditative state
  • That the Tibetan word for meditation is literally translated as "familiarize"
  • What "awake awareness" means
  • How to experience the bliss & joy of thought-free awareness
  • How to function as "continuous intuition"
  • That our thoughts & feelings are not the center of who we are
  • How to keep difficult emotions from overwhelming you
  • What "local awareness" is

 

Please help us out by taking our short 3 question survey and receive a free guide: The 5 Biggest Behavior Change Mistakes

subscribe in itunes

 
Direct download: Loch_Kelly_Final_1.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 9:21pm EDT

Please help us out by taking our short 3 question survey and receive a free guide: The 5 Biggest Behavior Change Mistakes

Deborah-Schoeberlein-David

 

 subscribe in itunes

This week we talk to Deborah Schoeberlein David about integrating mindfulness into daily life

Deborah Schoeberlein David is a teacher, education consultant and curriculum developer. Deborah's most recent book is Living Mindfully: At Home, At Work and in the World . An earlier book, Mindful Teaching and Teaching Mindfulness: A Guide for Anyone Who Teaches Anything, is now in its fourth reprint and has been translated into Spanish and Korean. Deborah's other publications include multiple articles in professional journals and trade magazines; and online postings, including more than 60 blogs for the Huffington Post.

Our Sponsor this Week is Spirituality and Health Magazine. Click here for your free trial issue and special offer.

spirituality and health magazine

 In This Interview Deborah and I Discuss...

  • The One You Feed parable
  • Her new book
  • How the mind naturally wanders
  • How mindfulness is not a panacea
  • Bringing mindfulness into all aspects of our lives
  • Exploring different styles of meditation
  • The practice of adding in instead of adding on
  • Integrating mindfulness into activites that we are already doing
  • Focus, Observe, Refocus
  • Learning to break our habitual reaction patterns
  • Increasing the space between stimulus and response
 
 
  

Please help us out by taking our short 3 question survey and receive a free guide: The 5 Biggest Behavior Change Mistakes


subscribe in itunes

 
Direct download: Deborah_S_David_Final.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 6:13pm EDT